Manners 2.0
Great piece in the times about email "sign-off" manners. Seems like anybody who pays this much attention to a sign-off may have some insecurities to begin with, but I've been criticized at times before (unfairly!) when I haven't left a comment in my Evite responses, so maybe there's something to this. After some review of my Inbox, here's my not-so-scientific analysis:
No Sign off: All business -- don't have time for words. Emotions are for losers
"Best": The one I use, but re-reading, does seem a little cold at times. Business-casual
"Best Regards": Even colder, Business Dressy.
"Regards": Ice-cold. Don't expect to hear back. Ever.
"Warmest Regards": Letting you down easy, but I still wouldn't expect to hear back.
"Thanks": Universal nicety -- doesn't say much nor create any confusion. Very safe.
"Thanks!": Kissing up -- trying to get something out of you.
"Ciao": Yuppie Euro. Thinking hard about their signoff, may have some insecurities.
"Cheers": Poor-man's Ciao. Thinking pretty hard about it, but more down-to-earth. Probably find Ciao to be uppity.
"Sincerely": From the letter-writing generation -- likely 60+ and may write a bunch of stuff in all CAPS BECAUSE THEY DIDNT KNOW HOW TO UNDO THE CAPSLOCK.
"Warmly": Very nice feeling at first, but.... could be a trap. Hard to know where they're coming from, so watch your back.
Best!
Russ
Update: New piece in the times yesterday about the Evite thing
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